Clitoral, vaginal, full body or multiple! Here’s our top ten orgasm tips to make your mind tick and your body tingle.
Whatever your sexual experience, one of the best orgasm tips for any woman is to take responsibility for her own climax. Don’t leave it solely up to the guy. He only knows too well that what worked for his last partner isn’t likely going to work for you. So do your self a favour, give him a break and fast track your own sexual satisfaction with these sure- fire tips to reach The Big O.
Top 10 Orgasm Tips
#1 Abandon Any Inner Battles
Be comfortable in your own skin. You are never going to reach The Big O if you’re too busy obsessing over your flaws. Learn to love your body and un-clutter your head from negative thoughts and start obsessing over him and the pleasure he is going to give you instead.
#2 Practice With Your Vibrator
One of the best orgasm tips is to purchase a vibrator. Experimenting with a sex toy really is the most comprehensive way to learn all the intricacies of your own body in your own time. Learn what works for you and then use those same techniques or positions with a partner.
#3 Lube Up
Use lube when you need it, whether it’s on your own or with a partner. Some women naturally self lubricate a lot but even those can benefit from some additional lubrication. Create a super sexy, slippery and comfortable sex environment to help with a great female climax.
#4 Prepare Your Body For Sex
Ensure your body is fully prepared for sex by firstly getting in tune with your breathing. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and rush in to things too quickly. Start with slow deep breaths to increase oxygen levels and blood flow to your sex organs. Incorporate this with plenty of foreplay to slowly build you to the point of climax.
#5 Seduce Your Mind
If you’re meeting that night, tantalize your mind and start the ball rolling throughout the day. Send a few saucy texts and let the anticipation build. Fantasy leads to ecstasy so think of it as extended foreplay. By the time you are together your body will already be well on its way.
#6 Be There For You
Be there for you and only you. Sound selfish? No not really. There will be plenty of time to please him. Get it in your head that it’s about your pleasure and don’t be too shy to take charge.
#7 Take Control
If you know what you like and what’s going to get you there, then don’t be afraid to take control. During sex don’t start thinking that you’ve taking too long, just surrender to your sensations and enjoy the ride. No man is going to complain about a woman clearly enjoying herself.
#8 Release Your Inner Slut
Don’t be afraid to release your inner slut. What ever that may be and however you interpret it. Dress ups, fetish, or just as effective some nice lingerie. When you feel sexy you are sexy and the easier it is to reach The Big O.
#9 Introduce Your Vibrator With Your Partner
Let him use it on you, or give him a private show. If you are comfortable enough to use it with someone, he’s only going to find it hot and it’s more than likely that you’re going to get off!
#10 Have Sex On Your Period
Your libido increases as your menstrual cycle approaches making your vagina abuzz with a multitude of extra sexy senses. Period sex can actually increase the likelihood of quicker, stronger, orgasms and make for a happier satisfied you.